Excuses tend to creep in when we feel nervous, hindering our ability to love and care for ourselves. The busyness of life, work demands, constant responsibilities, or the desire to prioritize time with our partners often lead us to neglect self-care. We find ourselves using familiar excuses like needing to lose weight first or lacking the finances to invest in ourselves. But I want to emphasize that regardless of the excuse, you have the power to overcome it. Let me demonstrate that, no matter the circumstance, you are worthy of self-love and appreciation.

“I don’t have enough time for myself”

One common excuse we make is not having enough time for self-care. It is essential to remember that neglecting our mental well-being can prevent us from effectively caring for others. Although it may seem easier said than done, I understand the struggles of prioritizing mental health breaks. That is why I find it crucial to share this reminder with all of you. Sometimes we need someone to remind us to slow down, take a break, and breathe for a minute.

During a boudoir shoot, you can create a space to breathe and love yourself for a few precious hours. Imagine the energy you will save on a daily basis by stopping the harmful comparison to others or worrying about others’ perceptions of your appearance. It is an opportunity to witness the true source of your beauty, relieving a significant mental burden. Taking time for yourself is essential, so why not spend it enjoying an amazing experience and embracing a glamorous transformation?

“I’m not where I want to be weight wise/I don’t fit the media’s idea of a good enough size”

Were you aware that the body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by only 5% of females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT.

Why should you be confined to a certain size to love yourself? Why should you conform to a stranger’s distorted idea of a perfect body? Why compare yourself to others when every woman is unique?

While having goals and striving for a healthy lifestyle is commendable, it does not require you to harbour self-hatred along the way. Embrace self-love at every step of your journey. Be proud of where you are today, so you can be proud of where you’re headed. Consider having a boudoir shoot to celebrate your present self, and when you achieve your desired weight loss, have another to commemorate the remarkable progress you’ve made.

“I’m never feel sexy or sensual anymore so a boudoir shoot must not be for me.” 

WRONG. 

This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir shoot.

The excuse of no longer feeling sexy or sensual is the very reason you should consider a boudoir shoot. It is normal to lose touch with our femininity and sexuality amidst the chaos of life—health issues, raising children, or demanding work. To reignite that spark within us, a boudoir shoot can be a powerful remedy. It not only allows you to reconnect with your inner sensuality but may also kindle a new flame between you and your partner.

Remember, there’s no requirement to wear super sexy clothing or lingerie if it doesn’t resonate with your personality. There are numerous outfit ideas that can capture your essence. If you need inspiration, I’m more than willing to discuss them with you, or you can explore our blog for suggestions.

“A boudoir shoot is an investment and I don’t have the money right now.” 

Undeniably, a boudoir shoot is an investment, but it is an investment in yourself. By choosing to embark on this journey, you are investing in your well-being and cultivating self-confidence. To ease the financial burden, we offer payment plans. To secure your shoot, a booking retainer is required, and we can then tailor a payment plan to suit your needs. If you have any inquiries regarding our payment options, please reach out to us via email when scheduling your shoot. We are here to support you every step of the way.

In conclusion, it’s time to break free from the shackles of excuses that hold you back from embracing self-love, femininity, and confidence. No matter how busy life gets or what size you are, you deserve to prioritize yourself and rediscover your true beauty. A boudoir shoot offers you the opportunity to celebrate who you are in this moment and honor your journey towards personal growth.

Don’t let excuses rob you of the chance to invest in your well-being. Remember, we offer flexible payment plans to make the experience more accessible to you. Take the leap, book your shoot, and let us guide you on a transformative journey of self-discovery.